Thursday, July 26, 2007

July 26

Go figure, our FBI fingerprints showed up today IN A FEDEX OVERNIGHT ENVELOPE! Here's where it gets really odd, though. It was the envelope we sent, because it was folded in half, BUT, it wasn't the shipping label we supplied with our account info on it. How bizarre! It gets stranger... The dates on the fingerprints are the dates the woman told DH they were shipped, BUT, the date on the letter of procedure attached is from Tuesday - the day DH called. It's all very strange, but I have them, so I truly don't care!

Still waiting for the state police clearance for me. It's been 4 weeks now. DH got his over a week ago. yes, I'm still whining about this, but seriously, come on folks.

That's all that happened today.
:)

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

July 25

So, we had our fingerprints for our I600A done yesterday. It was a piece of cake, really, in and out. It was actually pretty cool - they use something called "aquaprints" andthey wet your fingers and then put them on a touch pad and it it scans them into a computer. It was really quite cool. Anyway, that's that, so now we wait...

Today, FINALLY notarized the last of our dossier forms for one region. We have to do the rest of the papers for the second region. We'll get those all in the mail tomorrow and then we're just waiting. It's nice, really. I'm looking forward to having some time left in teh summer without meetings, appointments or anything. I just want to hang out with my sweetie pie!

That's about it for now. Still waiting for our FBI prints to come back. They didn't use the Fedex envelope we sent (HOW AGGRAVATING!) and they sent DH's on Thursday and mine on Monday and neither has arrived. My state police check is still in limbo also - DH's got here a week ago. Anyway, hopefully those things will get sorted out soon and we'll be moving!
:)

Monday, July 23, 2007

July 23

Well, we had our INS appt today! I'm so so so so SO glad we decided to go in person rather than mailing the documents in, because we'd heard the wait to be fingerprinted can be weeks, but that's not apparently always the case if you go in person, because we're going TOMORROW! I'm REALLY hoping that means itwon't take 3 months to get our paperwork through, but I'm not going to hold my breath.

The other lesson learned is that you must ALWAYS pay for things with money orders. I paid for my state police check with a check and DH used a money order and he got his back last week and my freaking check JUST cleared. Mind you, we sent these out weeks ago. fun... So, I'm still waiting for that.

Otherwise, we're ALMOST done with our dossier. We'll be submitting the last few papers tomorrow, so that's super exciting! yahoo!!!!!

Sunday, July 22, 2007

July 22

Just a quick update. Head is throbbing! Why? Because Harry Potter 7 arrived on my doorstep yesterday afternoon around 4PM, I was up until 2AM reading it, and finished it around 4PM today. In between, I managed to go to the beach and berry picking with DS, go out to dinner last night, and somehow amuse a two year old and a thirty-two year old. Gotta love the multi-tasking that is mommyhood. Anyway, it was a great read and NO I will NOT tell anyone anything, so stop asking!

Anyway, tomorrow we're off to INS to file our I-600A. It's our first official "hurry up and wait" and the last big hurdle before submitting our documents to Russia. Word is, it's taking around 3 months now because everyone is rushing to get their INS paperwork in now before the fees change on the 30th. Major bummer there, because apparently the Boston office used to be great and it used to take around 3 weeks. Ah well, such is our luck...

:)

Saturday, July 21, 2007

July 21

So, we picked up the finalized copy of our homestudy yesterday. It was less than one month from the day we met with the agency until it was done. They were phenomenal through all of it. If you live in MA, I have to tell you how much I just LOVE A Red Thread Adoptions. If you ever need them, go check them out. They are helpful, warm, caring, and really just seem to love what they're doing. I can't say enough about them. When we picked up our homestudy, they also had a little card about hte name, and red thread bracelets for FIVE - one for each of us, and one for eachof the two children we are trying to adopt. How cool is that?

Anyway, today, we have to get a few forms notarized (let's hope the notary is on at our mall bank branch) and then on Monday, we'll send out the last of our forms to our Russian agency for our dossier. After that, we just have to wait for our FBI check to come back and MY CORI. DH got his back yesterday and we sent it the same day - grrrrr.

Wish us luck on Monday at our INS appt. I'm still trying to figure out what to do with the 2 year old. Do I bring him or see if I can find someone I can beg to watch him? It's so hard when everyone lives in tehopposite direction of where I need to be! Ugh, what a dilemma....

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

July 18

It's beena whirlwind of a week and I've been too crazy to post any updates!

Here are the things that have been going on...

1. Our homestudy is official!!!!! The CORI we were waiting for came back on Monday, and everything was notarized today! We have our appt with INS on Monday, so we'll be picking up the paperwork to bring with us - yahoo!

2. We completed a BUNCH of paperwork for our foreign dossier and had it notarized on Monday. We only have a few more forms to do for the Tver region and we stillhave to work on the Smolensk region after that.

3. We're in the process of taking pictures of our house, family, etc. If anyone has any GREAT pictures of us and the famiy they'd like to share, we'd love to include them!

I think those are the major things. INSANE, I tell ya!

Cute thing of hte week, though, is if you ask DS where we're going on a plane next year, he says "to Russia" and if you ask him why, he says, "to get me a boy and a girl". How adorable is that!
:)

Thursday, July 12, 2007

July 12

Well, here's teh insanity explained a bit more. We knew our social worker would be coming for our safety inspection this Wed. We realized there was NO WAY we'd pass. I had started ages ago to refinish our cabinet doors in our kitchen but burned way out and never finished. As a result, we had no doors on most of our cabinets. Also, DH had started to replace the floor and had never finished, so we had two floors. It was basically atrocious, so we had a gate keeping DS out and never worried. Yeah, that was NOT going to fly. So, I spent EIGHTEEN hours Sat/Sun painting and my cousin came Mon/Tues and replaced the floor. In the meantime, Dh emptied out our back master bedroom which we've been using as sotrage because we hadn't replaced the red shag carpet that was put in in the 70s. So, all in all, we spent Sat 10AM-midnight working. Sunday 10AM-5PM, Monday 9AM-midnight, Tuesday on and off all day for me and then 4PM-midnight for DH, and Wed 9AM-2PM. We literally put our last bag of clothes we hadn't had chance to fold in my backseat TEN MINUTES before our social worker arrived!!!!! The visit went great. The house looked good and passed fine. Our social worker is really really great nad even brought roses! We're now officially done except we need the stupid criminal record board to send our records. They're really taking their time, which is annoying, because otherwise it would be done and notarized by today, but whatever...

In other news, as we were going INSANE, our Russian agency sent us all of our dossier paperwork to get started on! We went on Wed and notarized the paperwork that didn't require work and we started to work on teh other stuff today, but really, we just needed a BREAK! We'll go great guns tomorrow, but today we just needed a rest. It's really moving along now, though!!!

Oh, also, we have an appt with INS to submit our homestudy and apply for our I-600A on July 23rd - wish us luck that it will move quickly!!!!!

In the meantime, some before and afters of my kitchen...

The ugly ass cabinets


The lovely green (sorry for the swatch of yellow)The NEW kitchen!!!!!


The same backwall ALL yellow! It looks really dark, but it really isn't that dark yellow.

Monday, July 9, 2007

July 9

Just a quickie today as I'm EXHAUSTED! It's been a long three days, and I'll show why tomorrow.

So, today, we got ALL of the dossier paperwork from our agency. A bunch of it was already filled out and ready to go, so all we have to do is get it notarized. Some of it needs some work, but that won't happen until Wednesday afternoon, because we have our two final homestudy visits tomorrow and Wed and we just can't possibly squeeze one more thing into our lives right now. It's all moving so quickly, I'm worried about the "hurry up and wait" that's coming soon. I hope we'll get lucky and INS will get things back to us quickly - but I'm not betting on it.

Anyway, that's the basic info of the day. I'll try to update more tomorrow, but honestly, until Wednesday, life will be pretty insane!

Sunday, July 8, 2007

July 8

Not much going on except house CRAZINESS trying to get things together for our home visit on Wednesday. I spent SEVENTEEN house painting my kitchen this weekend and it's not totally done. Ugh. If I never see a paintbrush it will be too soon! I'm also a little tipsy. Our neighbors invited us over and appartently I have a very low tolerance these days and two large glasses of wine later and my spelling sucks. I'll be back tomorrow for a more coherent post.

Thursday, July 5, 2007

July 5

Some new craziness today!

We started off the morning at the police station having our fingerprints done for the FBI. Man, you just feel like such a criminal, even when the officer is super nice and helpful. It's just hte concept of it! So, we did that and DH bought the money orders we'll need to have those processed. We'll next day Fed-Ex them tomorrow.

Then, we got an email from our foreign placement agency and they sent letters we have to sign and have notarized to the state criminal agency board. So, I took mine with me when I went out this afternoon and stopped by the bank to have it notarized on the way home. After a LONG wait (everyone else was out because of the holiday week) the one notary there freed up and I got it signed and headed to the post office. Popped it in the mail, got in the car and realized, OH SHIT, i forgot to include the check. So, back to the post office to beg the clerk for help because I did NOT want to go to the bank again. Thankfully, it's a small post office and the guys there were helpful and really interested in the adoption so they helped me fish it out of hte outgoing mail, ripped it open for me and then taped it back together once I had included the check and the SASE. To talk about how nice people are, ALL of hte people in line let me cut in front not once, but TWICE when I had to run up to buy a pre-stamped envelope and then to have it taped back together. I was totally feelin' the love today, I'll tell ya!

Oh, so in other news, apparently, INS is increasing their fees as of Julyu 31, so we have to get our paperwork in for the I-600A (petition to adopt a foreign orphan) before then because of the fee increase, but mainly because everyone else is scrambling and the wait is expected to go from 3 weeks to 3 MONTHS! Ugh. Everything had been so well and now that will be a MAJOR slow down. Not much we can do, however, so we just move on.

So, here I am back at home after our adventure. My poor kid kept BEGGING me to just go home. So, we're outside playing now and I'm a dork outside with my laptop. Better go hang out with my guy!
:)

Monday, July 2, 2007

July 2

LOTS going on today!

First, we got a draft of our homestudy as it is thus far. It's looking good!!!!! Looks like we'll be approved for TWO KIDS - yahoo!!!!!!!!! Now, we'll just have to cross EVERYTHING and hope that two kids will be ready for us to bring home.

Secondly, the foreign placement agency got our application fee and letter and is already sending us paperwork to fill out! I think her goal of having our dossier complete at the same time as our homestudy is actually going to happen. How frickin cool is that? Let's just hope that things continue to move smoothly and nicely. I'm so ready to be a mommy to two more awesome kiddos!
:)